Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free

Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free

From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Primates of Park Avenue, a bold, timely reconsideration of female infidelity that will upend everything you thought you knew about women and sex. What do straight, married female revelers at an all-women's sex club in LA have in common with nomadic pastoralists in Namibia who bear children by men not their husbands? Like wome From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Primates of Park Avenue, a bold, timely reconsideration of female in...

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Title:Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free
Author:Wednesday Martin
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Genres:Nonfiction
ISBN:0316463612
Format Type:Hardcover
Number of Pages:320 pages pages

Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free Reviews

  • Jason
    Nov 20, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

  • Jocelyn Rivard
    Oct 13, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

  • Jennifer
    Nov 13, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

    This is an amazing and thought provoking book, a necessary addition and a very necessary one to those who have read Sex at Dawn. ...

    Bingo, Wednesday Martin revealed the truths about women's sexuality, sorting out the male-created myths. ...

    Fascinating read!! ...

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    ...

  • Galen Johnson
    Jan 08, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

  • Simone Collins
    Nov 11, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

  • Joy Bishop
    Dec 10, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

  • Scribe Publications
    Jun 28, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

  • Scribe Publications
    Jun 28, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

  • Susanne Strong
    Feb 05, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

  • David
    Dec 02, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

  • Cait
    Oct 02, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

  • Morgan Destera
    Nov 09, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

  • Karen Mayes
    Feb 03, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

    This is an amazing and thought provoking book, a necessary addition and a very necessary one to those who have read Sex at Dawn. ...

    Bingo, Wednesday Martin revealed the truths about women's sexuality, sorting out the male-created myths. ...

  • Wendy
    Jan 10, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

  • Cristine Mermaid
    Oct 28, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

  • Rhonda Jamerson
    Jan 01, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

    This is an amazing and thought provoking book, a necessary addition and a very necessary one to those who have read Sex at Dawn. ...

    Bingo, Wednesday Martin revealed the truths about women's sexuality, sorting out the male-created myths. ...

    Fascinating read!! ...

    ...

  • Mark Grether
    Oct 15, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

  • Sue
    Oct 15, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

  • Joel Cigan
    Jan 16, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

  • Tawni Winns
    Dec 20, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

  • Ashleigh
    Oct 24, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

  • Verne
    Aug 26, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

  • Andrea
    Dec 07, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

  • Adrian Sergiusz
    Nov 04, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

    This is an amazing and thought provoking book, a necessary addition and a very necessary one to those who have read Sex at Dawn. ...

  • Marylisa Sullivan
    Nov 27, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

  • felix
    Jan 17, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

  • Kelsey Witzling
    Dec 28, 2018

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

  • Rachelle Porsenna
    Feb 01, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

  • AM AM
    Jan 03, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

  • Kyri Low-Bingham
    Feb 10, 2019

    3 Stars. Wednesday Martin is a woman with very staunch ideas on women?s identities, adultery and sex. The idea of being ?Untrue? v. True. How women and men are perceived differently if they are untrue, if they enjoy being sexual. Men are patted on the back and respected, while...

    What a thoroughly enjoyable read! As having basically zero sex drive myself (let's be honest with ourselves: humans are repulsive), I blithely accepted the conventional wisdom that women had lower sex drives, cheated less, and were tempted to cheat less. Few things are more refreshi...

    Such an interesting book. This didn't make an easy read per se, due to the choppy writing, poor structure and lack of conciseness, but all was forgiven due to the fascinating and enlightening subject matter. ...

    So. I'm really into the use of ethnography and participant-observation as a way to examine mainstream, western culture. That being said, I needed this to either be less anthropological or more. It might be the penalty of knowing too much, but I had a lot of questions about the ethics h...

    Yes, come for the salaciousness but stay for the lesson. Eye opening in a number of ways, but what stands out is how still deeply maintained in our politics, and US culture, is the ongoing subjugation of women and a demonstration how much farther we have to go. Martin, as well as Chri...

    This book won't be for everybody. And I'll admit that my attention wandered a bit in chapters dealing with research into primates, etc. But the anecdotal sections and the historic detail of how monogamy became a thing were truly fascinating. ...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Great book ...

    I can't say I am a fan of her writing style. It seems many of her sentences run on and get somewhat confusin - One thing I am not pleased with is the author's tendency to describe the people she is interviewing. Tall, blonde, willowy, beautiful, young, what color lipstick, etc. Everyon...

    Excellent re-examination of stereotypes about women's sexuality, from evolutionary ecology to personal exposition. As a biologist, I found the biologically-based discussions sound and fair. The polyamory section seemed a bit naive, from a Pacific Northwest gal who sees these things all...

    Fascinating. Infuriating. I learned a lot that I should have learned in my many courses on the topic of human mate selection and sociobiology in college, and didn?t. I bought all the tropes Martin exposes here, and I?m pissed about it. Down with the patriarchy! ...

    This book is so decisively founded on errors and flat out debunked statements on science, misleading anthropology, cherry picked and misleading history, and a complete manipulation of the feminist tradition that beyond some incredibly basic points it can?t offer anything new or accur...

    Scientifically literate and sexually cliterate ? an exuberant unfettering of female sexuality that challenges us to ?think outside her box.? Viva la Vulva! Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and Author of She Comes First If you have ever felt different, other, or just weird when it co...

    Enlightening book about the myths surrounding women's sexuality. It contains heaps of research breaking myths such as "women are biologically wired for monogamy", "women need to be 'in love' to enjoy sex and can't have sex without falling in love", "women have low sex drives", "straigh...

    This book was too anthropological for my tastes as it explores various Indian tribes as well as the history of agrarian societies, nomadism and the ?plough? which Martin states has dictated the female menstrual period. Most of the prose felt ?jibberish? to me and written too...

    Pretty enjoyable read, with a lot of interesting research compiled. I sort of read this as an alternative to Sex at Dawn with a female focus, which I think it accomplished. At times it seemed like a somewhat random compilation at research and I would have liked more a focus on current ...

    Extremely well written if necessarily narrow, but I totally get that the premise is the comparison and to create an excellent and provable hypothesis. The under examined and timely topic needs to be flushed out and be made grist for the mill. Lets talk about this. The tip of an iceberg...

    This book was such a great read and I could not put it down. Wednesday Martin covered the topic of female infidelity in depth and her research was simply fascinating. I learned so much and this book kept my attention from beginning to end, it challenged a lot of the assumptions about w...

    This book pretty much blasted through those old tired stereotypes that ALL women are creatures that long for monogamy. This book dismantles societal ideas (created by men) with scientific facts and studies of other cultures. I learned so much about the world and my own biology reading ...

    2.5 for me. This book wasn't exactly what I expected. I agree that female desire feels taboo to talk about. I did learn about some stuff people are into that I didn't know people are into (throuples? Hot wifing?). I'm not entirely sure that some of this that looks like female sexua...

    Loved Wednesday Martin's research into female sexuality. Debunks many "myths" of low female desire from the animal world and through various cultures. I feel she gave women the benefit of unbridled sexuality not dictated by "societal mores." ...

    Excellent book. Well thought out and researched. ...

    Share it with everyone. ...

    3.5 stars ...

    Every woman should read it. ...

    This is an amazing and thought provoking book, a necessary addition and a very necessary one to those who have read Sex at Dawn. ...

    Bingo, Wednesday Martin revealed the truths about women's sexuality, sorting out the male-created myths. ...

    Fascinating read!! ...